LAB-F01 — HOW YOU WORK: YOUR REACTION DIDN’T COME FROM NOWHERE.
WHAT’S HAPPENING?
Something happens.
Your mind interprets.
Your body reacts.
Sometimes before you’ve even worked out: What just happened?
WHAT’S HAPPENING BEHIND
WHAT’S HAPPENING?
MIND
YOUR MIND MAKES MEANING.
Your brain doesn’t just respond to what happens.
It responds to what it thinks it means.
“Can we talk?”
Finally.
Or:
Uh-oh.
Same words.
Different meaning. Different response.
Psychology calls this appraisal — how we evaluate what something means to us.
Meaning can change the moment.
BODY
YOUR BODY RESPONDS.
If something feels important, demanding or threatening, your stress systems can respond.
The amygdala helps detect emotionally important information, including potential threat — and helps sound the alarm.
Heart rate changes.
Muscles tense.
Attention narrows.
Fight. Flight. Freeze. Fix.
Useful when there’s something to deal with.
Less useful when your body is responding to danger your mind has only predicted.
MIND + BODY
PRESSURE CHANGES THINKING.
Your prefrontal cortex supports executive functions including working memory, flexible thinking and decision-making.
Research shows acute stress can make some of these processes harder.
So:
THE LOUDER THE ALARM,
THE HARDER IT CAN BE TO THINK CLEARLY.
Which helps explain why:
YOU CAN KNOW BETTER
AND STILL NOT DO BETTER.
Especially in the moment.
Knowing the move and being able to make it are not always the same thing.
JOIN THE DOTS.
SOMETHING HAPPENS.
↓
YOU MAKE MEANING OF IT.
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YOUR MIND + BODY RESPOND.
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WHAT COMES NEXT CAN CHANGE.
Your reaction isn’t random.
The reaction you’re trying to change may have started before the reaction.
And that’s where a Hack creates space to work WITH how your mind + body work.
Not against them.
WHAT’S NEXT?
DON’T FIX IT YET.
CATCH IT.
Separate:
WHAT HAPPENED
from
WHAT I MADE IT MEAN.
Ask:
What happened?
What did I think it meant?
What happened in my body?
What did I do next?
There’s your pattern.
START YOUR HACK
→ Find the Life Moment you’re actually in.
READ THE RESEARCH
Research across appraisal, emotion regulation and executive function supports the bigger picture: how we interpret a situation can shape emotional responses, while stress can affect cognitive processes involved in what we do next. Effects vary by person, situation and type of stress.
Shields, Sazma & Yonelinas found that acute stress impaired working memory and cognitive flexibility on average, while its effects on inhibition were more nuanced.
In human:
PRESSURE CAN MAKE IT HARDER TO USE THE THINKING SKILLS YOU NEED UNDER PRESSURE.
REFERENCES
Shields, Sazma & Yonelinas — The Effects of Acute Stress on Core Executive Functions: A Meta-Analysis
Girotti et al. — Prefrontal Cortex Executive Processes Affected by Stress in Health and Disease
Ochsner, Silvers & Buhle — Functional Imaging Studies of Emotion Regulation
*A NOTE ABOUT THIS ARTICLE
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