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THIS IS WHERE IT BEGINS.

Thoughts become words become actions become you.

Words help explain what we know to be true. Where change begins. Where power gets rewritten.

When we can identify a pattern and name it, once you see it, you can’t un-see it.

This mind shift is the beginning of choice - to break the pattern, instead of being broken.

Every big change starts with one small shift, one deep breath, one simple reset.

With the smallest shift, the greatest Power.

Let BiG Secret Life empower you in your life journey, to rediscover and reset to who you truly are.

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The Problem Is Not The Problem

The problem is not really the problem. Your attitude to a problem is really the problem. Problems are like never ending waves in the ocean. You can’t stop them, so you may as well learn to surf!

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Be A Lady

We live in a world that we all live in. And yes, there are differences between the different genders that do not make us equally biologically the same, but are we all not born to equally live and walk a path of our own choosing?

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Respond Gently Not React Angrily

We can turn #badshit into #goodshitwemakehappen if only we #respond from a place of #kindness and #love, not #react in #anger. We should all strive to master such #goodcommunication skills and continue #speakingfromtheheart. A #gentle answer turns away #anger.

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Grief Is A Journey

Just know it won’t always be like this, and it won’t ever be like then, it will just be different from now on.

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Be Good Be Loud

Your voice matters. You don’t have to raise your voice when you raise the points that need to be brought to light. You don’t have to be a bully. You also don’t have to be silent. Stand up and speak up against the injustices of the world. Stand up and speak up for what is right. Even if no one else will. Because it is never wrong to do what is right.

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Peace Be Within You

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Change Is Ever Changing

Change can be challenging.

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Change Is Natural

Change is a part of the flow of life.

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I Love You

I love you for who you are. I love you because you are you. I love you because of who I am because of you. You giving me your best you and bringing out the best in me, is the best gift you could ever give me.

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Become

Thoughts become words become actions become you. You become.

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Never Argue With A Fool

Any fool can make things bigger, more complex and more crazy. It takes a touch of genius, a bright spark of clarity plus a huge dose of maturity, and courage, to move in the opposite direction. You don’t have to attend every argument you have been invited to.